Relationship Advice 101: Things the Happy Couples Do

shutterstock_130585646You’ve seen them – those couples who can’t get enough of one another and they have been together for decades. What do they know that you don’t? One of the biggest relationship advice requests among couple is how to be more like those couples. Believe it or not, it’s not top secret. In fact, most of the practices of these happy couples you can easily start now – if you can make the effort.

 

Keep the Dating Life Alive

This doesn’t mean go out and date other people. It means keep the lifestyle of you both dating one another alive. Stay spontaneous, keep up the revealing conversations and share intimate details just like you would when you were dating your partner.

Spend More Time Trying on Each Other’s Shoes

Your spouse has his own point of view and so do you. If you expect for you both to agree 100 percent of the time, you’ll be severely disappointed. When you have a disagreement, still be yourself and make your point. But, take the time to reflect back on that moment and relive it in your partner’s shoes. While some couples try this bit of relationship advice and apply it during the fight, you’ll find better results reflecting back later – not trying to be the other person during your argument.

Treasure the Small Stuff

You don’t need a fancy present or big weekend getaway to really appreciate one another. Instead, the happiest couples are those who appreciate and even treasure the small stuff. This can include generosity between one another, making your spouse toast in the morning or even just letting her get a little extra sleep and helping out with the kids. These small, simple moments are ones that will go a lot further than an expensive tennis bracelet or buying her that dream car.

Live in a Village

There is a popular phrase that it takes a village to raise a child – well it applies to marriages too. Couples should surround themselves with people who support their union, honor the sanctity of marriage and appreciate them together as well as individually. Another bit of relationship advice would be to avoid couples or individuals who are negative toward marriage or don’t like the idea of you being with your partner. Ultimately, when you and your partner have a disagreement, that negative individual may do more harm than good down the road.

Laugh

Often when couples fall into serious times – marriage, bills, children, etc. – they forget to laugh with one another. In addition, these couples often forget to laugh at the small, stressful stuff. For example, you and your spouse had to barrel through the airport to avoid missing your flight. But once you get on the plane, you don’t laugh about the adventure, you stress about what you may have forgotten to pack in the rush. Remembering to laugh and let go not only improves your own mood, but can really improve your marriage.

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